After nearly 5 months in America, I arrived back in Kenya on
New Year’s Eve, ready to begin my 10th year serving in Mbita. Among other things in the past two weeks
since I have returned to Africa, I have gotten settled back into my house;
reunited with friends, colleagues, students and football players; helped 80
returning secondary students go back to school;
began the new school year at CGA; and had a weekend of training with the
Suba Laker Primary School football girls.
In the coming weeks as the school year moves along, we will begin
preparing our 27 CGA graduates for their graduation and to join various high
schools throughout the country, as well as 14 girls from our football club.
In some ways, it feels so good to be back “home” in
Kenya. It is wonderful to connect with
dear friends and to see the young ones growing and maturing into what God
created them for. I love the warm
weather and beautiful sunsets over the islands on Lake Victoria. I am in awe of the way the stars light up the
sky at night as well as the fishing boats on the lake, the sound of the birds
singing sweetly in the morning, and even sometimes the hippos grunting down by
the lake. I smile at the random cows,
sheep and goats dotted across the landscape, especially the baby goats that can
barely walk. There is much joy in my
heart walking down the road when I hear a small child shouting “Uncle Joe” as
he waves energetically. I treasure going
to church and seeing the people worship God with total inhibition, singing at
the top of their lungs one minute and bowing down on the dirty cement floor in
reverence the next minute. For the past
9 years of my life this has been my “home.”
But something big is missing! This time it feels much different to be
back. That is not because I was gone for
the longest stretch since I came to Kenya in 2004. It is because a huge piece of my heart is
back in Portland, OR! I know many of you
have heard about Daneen, but many of you have not until now…
My life was turned upside down in October. Towards the end of my travels in America, I
was heading to the Great Northwest before returning home to California. A friend that I had met in Mission Training
back in 2003 and had served with his wife in Kenya several years ago, told me
that when I travel to Portland I should invite his friend Daneen to any
speaking engagement I would have because she lived in Africa for a couple of
years and is passionate about that continent.
I followed through with that advice and invited her to a small reception
I was having for friends. I was
immediately attracted to her, and it wasn’t because of the delicious Apple Pie
she had baked (though that didn’t hurt either).
Not only was she beautiful, intelligent, passionate, warm, friendly and outgoing,
but she even worked for a non-profit that provides college scholarships to
students in Africa! What a perfect fit
for CGA (and me)! That was a great
excuse to see her again at her office to discuss partnering with CGA. Our relationship grew at a very rapid rate,
probably because we were both at that stage where we were ready to find someone
to share our lives with. At the same
time we were both very open, honest and ready to talk about our deepest
desires, passions, struggles and weaknesses.
Towards the end of 11 amazing days together in Southern California I
told Daneen I was postponing my flight back to Kenya for a month (until Dec.
30) so that I could spend a couple of weeks in Portland with her and then a week
with her family in Pennsylvania at Christmas time. I proposed to her with a poem on December 27th
at a point overlooking her hometown of York, PA. We are planning a wedding for early next
summer and then will be returning to Kenya in July for another wedding and to
serve together in Mbita.
So that is what is missing here in Kenya... DANEEN!!... my
new “home.” It is exciting to know that
wherever God leads us in the coming years, we will always be at home because we
will be together until we reach our ultimate home with our Father in
heaven!
It has been another incredible adventure for me that has the
fingerprints of God all over it. My life
will never be the same again! I can’t do
justice to the story in a short e-mail update because once I get going I could
fill up a hundred pages talking about Daneen and what she has brought to my
life in the past few months. If you want
to read more, check out the stories on my blog:
My Time in America
During my time on furlough, I had travelled all over America
seeing friends and family, and sharing about the work that God is doing in the
lives of the young people in Mbita. It
was tiring and tedious with lots of travelling and staying in different places
all the time, but at the same time it was wonderful reuniting with incredible
friends and telling the great stories of hope that I have seen with my own eyes
and experienced firsthand over the years in Kenya. If you were not able to hear me speak while I
was home, you can listen to one of my presentations at:
I saw God’s provision through it all as I learned lessons of
trusting in Him. My faith continues to
grow as I rely on God daily and see Him at work throughout the world. The last 9 years of my life have been an
incredible adventure serving God in Kenya.
I would have never dreamed up this path for myself and would have never come
if I hadn’t felt God’s call so strongly.
Looking back I can say that it has been the best nine years of my
life. I can’t imagine living anywhere
else or doing anything different at this time in my life. At the same time though, something has been
missing. I don’t think I even realized
it was missing, until Daneen finally came into my life…
I know many of you have
been praying for a wife for me. Thanks
for your faithfulness in praying. God is
so good and answers prayer beyond our wildest imagination. This next “season” will be incredibly
busy and challenging. I need your
prayers more than ever! Thanks for your support!
Prayer Requests:
1)
Pray for the Lord’s guidance in my relationship
with Daneen as we grow to know each other deeper while we are apart. Pray that together we would bring even more
glory to Him than we have as individuals.
2)
Pray for God’s financial provision for the 8th
grade graduates from CGA and the Suba Lakers so that they will be able to join
high school in February. Pray for their
hearts and minds to be prepared for the rigors of boarding secondary schools.
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